Making a decision of getting a tattoo?

its very meaningful, but the problem is.... all those things you want tattooed, especially on your lower back may come out looking trashy. if you loveeeee it, go for it. but you have to love it enough that if people have rude remarks towards it, you know you did it for yourself and your loved ones, not to get a tattoo to show off to others. also, i think you can make this tattoo into many smaller ones, and you may be able to come up with something a little more creative. its all up to you! its your tattoo, and you are the only one who has to love it.